Don't Wrestle With Pigs

Author

Jacob Schmelzer
July 28, 2023

There’s an old saying I think about a lot, “Don’t wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty but the pig likes it!”

Not only does it crack me up every time I read it… it's jam-packed with wisdom!

And there are so many applications for this phrase as a pastor.

At least 5 to 10 times a week I am tempted to jump into the mud with critics, haters, and even the devil himself.

Here's the reality…

If you're serving God on the front lines of reaching people and making disciples you are going to deal with some pigs!

They come in all shapes and sizes.

Sometimes angry people.

Sometimes self-critical thoughts and beliefs.

And sometimes actual, all-out spiritual attack.

But here’s something I tell my kids.

We can’t control what other people do but we can control how we respond.

That simple truth has saved my bacon (haha) more than I can say!

Another reason why you shouldn’t let yourself get pulled into the mud of fighting, defending yourself, or drama is that it takes you off mission.

God called you to lead and feed the flock. Not go chasing every distraction that comes your way. If you’re consumed with drama you won’t put in the time, effort, energy, and prayer required to lead a healthy, growing church.

OK, last thought on this.

It’s SO important to surround yourself with positive, like-minded leaders on this journey.

For one, you need somewhere to vent and blow off steam! Sometimes you just need to talk a little bit, right? So you need a good environment for that.

Second, good leaders will sympathize with your struggle but call you up and out to be a winner!

That’s why I love the community we’ve built in UpLevel Leader.

So many incredible pastors and leaders helping each other grow.

Talk soon,

Pastor Jake

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